Are You Tired of Heartbreak, Games, and Drama When it Comes to Love?

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.  It’s not only WHO you choose, it’s about HOW you choose them…
Popular culture tells us that the process of finding the love of your life is like some kind of mystical journey shrouded in unknowable mysteries and random magical flashes.  Even the term “Falling in Love” implies that this is something completely out of our control, like we tripped over an unseen root and fell headlong into a pile of love.  This makes for great Hollywood movies yet results in very poor outcomes in the real world.  One has only to look at the divorce rate or ask a stranger at any cocktail party for their broken heart story to know that the “regular” way of finding your life partner is not much better than Vegas odds, and in many cases much worse.


Ask yourself  if you would set off for a destination without a clear idea of where you were going and why you wanted to go there, much less without a map for HOW you were going to get there.  Without these things you might happen into some place you liked by random chance, but you would waste a lot of time on the way and probably end up on the wrong side of the tracks more than a few times.  Worse yet you might just settle for some place “good enough” because you got tired of blundering into dead ends and scary neighborhoods and miss your life’s true destination.  We wouldn’t go on a roadtrip without using a GPS,  so why do the majority of us go about finding our mate this way?


There is another way, we call Dating with Awareness.  Awareness, as in, “to have full conciousness of knowledge gained through one’s own perceptions or by means of information”.  Through a process we call Conscious Dating we help you get really clear on the destination you truly want and deserve for your relationship journey.  We help you build your own individual map for how to get there, providing support when you stumble, accountability to keep you on the path, and skills that will change the way you see dating forever.


Scroll down to learn more about the different ways we work with clients, learn more about relationship coaching, and explore the Loving with Awareness philosophy.  While you are at it check out our FREE information and offers for new clients, like our FREE Art and Science of Love e-course to the left. Why the FREE offers, because we believe the best way to learn how Dating with Awareness is different is to sample it for yourself!

What is Relationship Coaching?

Why would you want to engage a coach?  How can they help you find and keep love?  How does this differ from therapy?

The first question we often get is “What is Coaching?  Is it like Therapy?”

The short answer is No, while both are very valuable in helping you move past roadblocks in your life they get there a very different way.  Where therapy is a bit like going to the doctor, coaching is more like engaging a personal trainer.  The coach sees the client as a healthy and powerful individual who, when presented with the right information and accountability, is capable of achieving their own goals.  The coach is not there to “fix” the client.  They are there to support the client to achieve their own success.  For a longer explanation of therapy vs. coaching click here to visit our FAQ


So what is “Relationship Coaching”?  In short, it’s a collaborative process. I help you define, speak out loud, and strategically move toward achieving what you really want in life.  I will help you find success as you define it – and deserve it!


At times we all need encouragement, someone to help us move through our stuff and see our true selves. Imagine you are walking along a path in the dark, stumbling your way to a destination only partially aware. Then imagine seeing a person along the path who hands you a lamp. This person is your coach, and the lamp is the tool with which to see. It is up to you to put oil in the lamp and to light it.


This lamp is yours to treasure, for inevitably, there will be times when the path seems dark and once again, you can pick up the lamp, fill it with oil and light it. And if you ever forget where you put it, a coach will help you find it. The lamp belongs to you, take it, use it, treasure it!


For more information on coaching click here or try one of our free tools like the Art and Science of Love e-Course or the Relationship Readiness Assessment to the right to get an idea what relationship coaching is about.



Why Work With Us?

What Called Us to Do This?  What Experience Do We Bring?  What Kind Of People Do We Work With?

In short you should work with us because we believe passionately that everyone deserves to find a fulfilling nourishing love relationship that lasts a lifetime.  They just lack the skills to maximize the chances of finding that relationship.


You can learn more about us in our bio pages but in short after previous failed marriages both of us resolved to do something different and set out to do the work to figure out who we really were and what we really needed in a partner.  It took a great deal of hard work and some trial and error to come to the principles that led us to where we are today.  We didn’t have the benefit of a coach to teach us or hold us accountable so we gathered the wisdom, knowledge, and skills ourselves from many sources.  The end result was well worth the effort.


We are not therapists, psychologists, or counselors.  We both left successful careers in the Information Technology corporate world because we felt compelled to make a difference in people’s lives; to share our experience and hard won lessons with others and show people a better way.


We work with all kinds of clients without prejudice.  We believe that people of every age, race, spiritual belief, and orientation deserve to find the love of their lives.  We believe they deserve to find the person who can help them find true joy and peace; the person who will challenge and support them in finding their highest human and spiritual potential.  It is our blessing to be able to help set our clients on a path to find that future and that is what calls us to this practice.


To learn more about Loving with Awareness click here

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Join us for an upcoming Singles Event!  We offer both free and paid events.  Our events are a mix of education with fun, and often provide an opportunity to meet other singles in a low pressure environment.

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